News Break Ghost-Rejected Me

Not every Medium writer is permitted to board this gravy-train. Sometimes the writing life can feel like one big hustle. I’ve got the tattoo on my left leg and the garter on my right. I’m wheelin’, dealin’, writing. I’m holding a wild deuce one day and the next, I’m folding, ready to walk away. The … Continue reading News Break Ghost-Rejected Me

How The Four Happy Hormones Can Help Replenish Your Vitality

#3 Oxytocin, the love hormone. by Gerthy Bingoly The human body is a machine made to feel, an apparatus of excitement and pain, a box of emotions. Those feel good and feel bad moments are at the center of your everyday activities. The difference between waking up with a smile and jumping out of bed with … Continue reading How The Four Happy Hormones Can Help Replenish Your Vitality

Handling the Friend Who Shamelessly Flirts with Your Man

There’s always a friend you can never quite trust. She’s the friend who barely waits for your back to be turned before she transforms into a sex bomb, tossing her hair and swinging her hips as she saunters across the room with your man firmly in sight. You try to quell the annoyance splitting your … Continue reading Handling the Friend Who Shamelessly Flirts with Your Man

Relationship Power-Struggles? It May be Time to Surrender to Love

Let’s talk about love connection, baby. “Surrender isn’t about being passive. It’s about being open.”— Danielle LaPorte Remember when you used to play that game of tug-of-war as a kid? You willingly chose to place yourself in a situation where two people or factions fought to keep or obtain the same thing. Love can often feel like … Continue reading Relationship Power-Struggles? It May be Time to Surrender to Love

The 8 Natural Qualities of Exceptionally Cool People

Cool isn’t just what you say, it’s what you do.  Austin Powers. For some reason, the prolific 1960s spy who was unfrozen and thrust into an array of new assignments in a confusing ’90s world, is the first thing that comes to mind when I think of someone exceptionally cool — “Yeah, baby?” Okay, so … Continue reading The 8 Natural Qualities of Exceptionally Cool People

How to Be Effortlessly Cool

Ode to the women who make it look easy by Jennifer M. Wilson This is a total bait and switch title. Did you think I was going to teach you how to be “effortlessly cool”? Hell no! I have no fucking clue how to be hip! Do cool people still say "hip"?  I wish I … Continue reading How to Be Effortlessly Cool

New Year Energy Revolution

Who and how do you want to be in the world now? You’ve felt the universal lull lately. The void. In past months, you’ve succumbed to a sense of nothingness. Captured in a loop of indecisiveness. Loneliness or abandonment. It is as if we’ve all been suspended in vain, waiting for the slightest sign… a shift…. an omen. Waiting to … Continue reading New Year Energy Revolution

The Promise of Powerful Money Charms

What’s the deal with money charms and superstitions, anyway? “When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.”- Lao Tzu When I was a girl, my grandmother gave me a little pink purse with a coin inside because it was ‘bad luck’ to give someone a purse or wallet without doing … Continue reading The Promise of Powerful Money Charms

A Sensual Man is Like a Piece of Art

The creative expression of love I’ll never forget the night when sharing a few drinks with mates at a friend’s place, a much older guy took me aside to let me know that if there was ever a time when I wanted to discover what it felt like to make love to a real man, … Continue reading A Sensual Man is Like a Piece of Art

Seasons of Life

Hello friends, Welcome to the very first Living Out Loud newsletter! Super exciting. So, the world is still spinning on crazy as we continue to move through transitional times, but the warmer days here on the Australian eastern seaboard are beginning to renew my sense of hope for the future — how are you doing? … Continue reading Seasons of Life